Communication and Interaction

Overview

Children and young people with speech, language and communication needs (SLCN) may show differences in how they recognise and respond to other people, this is known as social understanding and social communication.

They may:

  • have difficulty saying what they want to
  • find it hard to understand what is being said to them
  • not understand or use usual social rules of communication

Children who are neurodivergent may be living with one or more neurodevelopmental conditions. These include autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia and Tourette’s syndrome. Many of these conditions are associated with social or communication differences. 

Schools follow a graduated approach to supporting children with SEND, led by the Special Educational Coordinator (SENDCo). This includes making reasonable adjustments to the environment, task presentation and targeted interventions and support. For children and young people with Communication and Interaction needs, this might include having personalised visual supports (e.g. visual timetable, social stories, comic strip conversations) and small-group interventions. 

Social Thinking

Social Thinking is the process we go through in our minds as we make sense of our own, or others, thoughts and feelings. We use it to understand what is happening around us, whether we are with other people, talking and interacting with them, or simply observing from a distance, such as when watching TV, using social media, or reading.

Teaching social thinking helps a child or young person to develop social skills.

A young person might have difficulties with: 

  • listening, sharing and/or turn taking 
  • understanding personal space 
  • understanding invitations to play, and/or following rules of a game 
  • empathising with others 
  • initiating, developing and/or maintaining friendships 
  • understanding and/or interpreting other people’s moods, behaviour, and/or motives 
  • two way social conversations
  • negotiating disagreements and seeking compromise 

Those with a diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Condition (ASC) may have difficulties with social thinking.

What can you do to support it?

  • Teaching how behaviour in social situations has an impact on our own and other peoples thoughts. Use of social stories and comic strip conversations (link back to where this is mentioned?)
  • Teaching about listening with our brain and body. For example, what are our eyes/ hands/feet/legs doing to show a person that we are listening. 
  • Teaching how to think with your eyes. For example, looking at pictures of social situations and ask the young person to make smart and wacky guesses about what people are thinking about. 
  • Playing games to explore understanding and teach the importance of personal space. E.g. Space bubble activity using hula hoops to identify personal space.
     

Attention

Attention is a skill needed to help a young person focus on the relevant information to achieve a goal, in spite of distractions, tiredness, or boredom

This is part of our executive functioning. Executive functioning skills are the mental processes that enable us to plan, focus attention, remember instructions, and carry out multiple tasks successfully.

What does it look like? 

A young person might:

  • be easily distracted
  • miss important information or instructions given
  • find it difficult receiving more than one piece of information or instruction at the same time
  • have difficulty staying focused over time

What can you do to support it? 

Teach ‘Stop and think’ strategies 

  1. Stop and think 
  2. Identify the situation 
  3. Ask “what do I want to do?” 
  4. Ask “is there a problem?” 
  5. Ask “what are the possible solutions?” 
  6. Consider the consequences to each solution 
  7. Choose the best solution 
  8. Evaluate the results. 
    • Use a timer to help the young person stay focused on the task in front of them. This will give the young person a clear boundary and expectation of how long they need to focus for and when they will be finished. 
    • Take active or movement breaks between tasks. 
    • Minimise 

Comic Strip Conversations

Comic strip conversations (created by Carol Gray) are simple visual representations of a social interaction. 

They can show:

  • what is happening
  • what is said within a conversation
  • what people might be thinking and feeling
  • what the child / young person is thinking / feeling

Comic strip conversations use stick figures and symbols to represent social interactions and colours to show how people may be feeling.

What skills does it develop?

Comic strip conversations can be used to explore a child’s understanding / view of a social interaction through drawing. They can also be used to help to develop a child’s understanding of a social interaction by drawing the situation, including visual cues and new ideas. Comic strip conversations can be kept by the child as a visual reminder / prompt.

How does it work?

Children take the lead role within a comic strip conversation. The child draws as they talk. The adult guides the child’s drawings with questions to gather information (e.g. Where were you? Who were you with? What were you feeling? What did you say? What did others say? What did you think when they said that?).

They are encouraged to write/draw and talk for the majority of the time. The adult offers support and guidance through the process.

Additional information

What interventions or strategies are commonly used?

Children and young people with Communication and Interaction needs can be supported in many ways. Schools and settings use a range of evidence‑based strategies to help with understanding language, using language, social communication, and interaction with others. Support is always based on the child’s individual needs.

Below are some of the most commonly used approaches.

Visual Supports

  • visual timetables
  • now/next boards
  • task breakdowns

Social Stories™ and Comic Strip Conversations

These tools help children understand:

  • social situations
  • expected behaviours
  • changes in routine
  • how others may think or feel

Structured Teaching Approaches

Many children benefit from structured, predictable learning environments. Strategies may include:

  • clear routines
  • consistent language
  • step‑by‑step instructions
  • breaking tasks into smaller chunks
  • using modelling and repetition

Social Communication Groups

These small group sessions help children develop:

  • turn‑taking
  • conversation skills
  • understanding social cues
  • problem‑solving in social situations
  • cooperative play

Emotional Regulation Support

Many children benefit from support to understand and manage their emotions. Strategies may include:

  • Zones of Regulation
  • 5‑Point Scales
  • co‑regulation with adults
  • sensory regulation strategies
  • calm spaces or quiet areas

Environmental Adjustments

Small changes to the classroom can make a big difference, such as:

  • reducing background noise
  • providing a quiet space
  • using clear, uncluttered displays
  • seating arrangements that support attention and interaction

Staff Training and Specialist Advice

Schools may receive support from:

  • Speech and Language Therapists
  • Specialist Teacher Teams
  • Educational Psychologists

Do I need a diagnosis for my child to receive support?

No - your child does not need a diagnosis to receive support for Communication and Interaction needs. Schools and early years settings must provide support based on a child’s needs, not on whether they have a formal diagnosis. This is part of their duty under the SEND Code of Practice. Schools must use a “graduated approach” (Assess–Plan–Do–Review) to put support in place as soon as needs are identified. 

When should I consider requesting an EHCP for communication and interaction needs?

An Education, Health, and Care Plan (EHCP) isn’t always appropriate for a child or young person – most can have their needs met in schools and settings. 
You may want to consider requesting an Education, Health and Care Plan (EHCP) if your child’s Communication and Interaction needs are having a significant impact on their ability to access learning, make progress, or take part in school life and the support already in place is not enough.

How do I get a diagnosis of autism for my child?

If you think your child may be autistic, you can request an assessment through either health services or your child’s school/early years setting. A diagnosis can help you understand your child’s needs, but remember you do not need a diagnosis for your child to receive support in school.

In Dorset, referrals are usually made to the Children’s (Paediatric) Development and Behaviour Pathway. This may involve:

  • a paediatrician
  • a Speech and Language Therapist
  • a Clinical Psychologist
  • other professionals depending on your child’s needs

Are there recommended resources or strategies for home communication development?

There are many simple, everyday strategies that can help develop communication and interaction skills at home. You don’t need specialist training to use them, and small, consistent changes can make a big difference.

  • Modelling language
  • Commenting instead of questioning
  • Using simple, clear language
  • Giving extra processing time
  • Offering choices
  • Using routines
  • Visual Supports for Home
  • Play Based Strategies

When to Seek Extra Support

If you are concerned about your child’s communication, you can speak to:

  • your child’s school or early years setting
  • your GP
  • a Speech and Language Therapist
  • the school SENDCo